Self-Confidence

Self-Confidence

Self Confidence can be defined as believe of you on your skills, abilities and on your decisions. If you have faith in your decisions & abilities then you can put all of the efforts in getting good results rather than wasting time in thinking on other useless things. If you are confident you will know your strengths and weaknesses and will keep yourself positive in every situation, so will be able to come out of difficult situations with better experience. Self-confidence helps you to become more successful in your professional and personal life.

Why self Confidence,

Self-confidence is one of the factors which make journey easy to success. It can be easily understand with an example, if a salesman visits you and introduced some products to you but he looks nerves and not describing his product qualities with confidence then you will not even listen to him even you need the product he is selling but in contrast if another salesman visits you and unfolds his product qualities with confidence and explained everything properly then even if you don’t require that product you will be interested to listen to that salesman and will pay your full attention.  

The example is self-explanatory about the importance of confidence to be more worthy with the same input. With confidence things becomes easy and you can achieve what you want. Self-confidence brings the best personality of yours and represents you in the best way possible…

How can you appear more Confident ?

While being confident, showing confidence to others is also as much as important as being confident. There are techniques with which you can appear more confident, your behavior and taking ethics shows your confidence. Below we have mentioned some behavioral ethics with which you can appear more confident…

Body Language

It is said that “Your body language speaks a lot about you” and everyone judges you by your body language. Body language is a nonverbal communication which speaks to the persons in front and shows your level of confidence.

Body language includes yours hand position, standing position, facial expression, Body gestures, eye to eye contact and how you use the available space. If you take care of all this things then you will look more confident and can convey your message to others more effectively and the response will be much better as the listener will be paying attention to your words.

To improve your body language you can practice your habits to make your body language more effective and soon all the things will be very common for you which looks special to others.

Face to face communication

During conversation if you are not having face to face contact then you appear less confident and thus you have more chances that listener will disagree with your thoughts or your presentation will not be so impactful.

People with low confidence find it more difficult to make a proper eye to eye contact and thus loose the order or the presentation went wrong as the listener do not get the feeling of engagement with the speaker.

Thus it is very important for the speaker to maintain an eye to eye contact with the front people to make them more comfortable with you and to appear more confident this is how other will be more engaged with you and you will looks like an expert presenter.

How can you boost your self-Confidence ?

Above we have discussed the importance of the confidence in life and how confidence helps to get better results. But if you are lacking with confidence what should you do? How you can regain if lost confidence, here some of tips are mentioned by which you can regain your confidence if you make them in habit…

Stop Comparing Yourself To Others

Sometimes we compare ourselves with the others and feel demotivated. We think that other are better than us and we don’t have any chance in front of them. They are already achieved a lot and we are just getting started. These thought usually comes to our mind and we feel less confident and can’t deliver what we can. Comparing yourself with other and getting demotivated is the worst you can do to yourself. In life everyone is running their own race and there is no competition with others that you need to perform better than others. 

Researcher have found that the people who compare them-self to other feels less confident and the longer they compare, more they become doubtful about their skills so sooner they start limiting themselves and starts being afraid of trying new things so never taste success.

Instead of comparing yourself to others you should analyze the things you think other are doing better than you and should start improving yourself to achieve what you want. You should only concentrate on improving yourself, so you can give your best everywhere.

Building Habits

Habit is defined as routine of activities that we repeat in daily life and we feel day is not completed until we completes those activities. Good habits can boost your confidence and are necessary to remain confident in daily life. Good habits include, exercising, morning walk, having healthy food etc. Your habits decides your future, if you have good habits you will be more confident and will have bright future.

Let’s take an example to understand if you are having reading and learning habits it will keep you updated about the affairs happening around the world, and while having discussion on any topic in a group you can confidently put your views as you will be aware about that topic.

If you have good habits it will always reflect in your personality and confidence and you can easily impress others.

Self-Comparison: -

Improving yourself is one of the factors which play an important role in achieving success. The best way to improve you is self-assessment. This is one of the best things that you can do to keep yourself motivated and confident.

You should compare yourself with the earlier you and you should analyze your past achievement and failures. You should find the reasons behind failure and success you get so you can find the deficiencies in your past work and can improve to get better results in future. That’s the way you can become the best version of you. This kind of analysis will also improve your confidence and decision making skills.

Take Care Of Your Body:

A healthy and energetic body gives more confident look than a sick and dull body. If you are not having a healthy body then sometimes it becomes difficult to show your confidence even if you are confident. There could be some bad habits due to which your body will give less confident look like improper sleeping hours, bad eating habits and missing exercise etc.

Researcher has found in researches that people with good health are more confident and concentrated compared to who don’t possess. And once you are fit physically then naturally your body will show the confidence and things will be easy.

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Always be yourself, express yourself have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it……Bruce Lee

 

We have shared our thoughts on self-confident and given some tips which we think can improve self-confidence. Please mention your feedback in the comment section………